Positively Sexual

The differences between the sexes create both fun and tension. Most men want sex, either with a new or current partner. Woman want sex too, but are trained to put up obstacles so as not to seem "easy." TO BED OR NOT TO BED presents specific information on how to use these differences to create more pleasure and intimacy in bed and elsewhere. The authors provide proven sexual and sensual methods used successfully with their clients, including exercises. The book takes readers on a journey that leads not just to the bedroom, but ultimately to a better relationship by showing how to take advantage of special techniques that bring a couple years of pleasure and happiness together. The book includes a chapter written especially for women, another written especially for men.

Any single or married woman can find success in the pursuit of love, marriage, and happiness with these sensible, sexy, realistic tips from Py Kim Conant, who used them to find her own American husband. More practical than politically correct, her advice covers every aspect of landing and keeping a man. Developing "Geisha Consciousness," she says, helps maximize a woman's femininity. The author invites readers to become a "Younger Sister," a geisha-in-training, and then proceeds into the four parts of this lively, provocative book: getting started as an American Geisha; sex secrets to bond him to you; planning for marriage; and keeping the marriage fresh and sexy. She suggests specific strategies for women including creating a bedroom shrine of worship to hubby's manhood; learning to express femininity and sexuality; identifying and then dating their "Good Man." An afterword on "Geisha Power," a glossary of terms, recommended reading, and resources help readers expand the experience.

This book is an entertaining and down-to-earth approach to making sex safer and more exciting. The book covers the topic completely, includes quotes and stories from the author's extensive circle of friends (she must talk about sex all the time!) and contains tips, skills, instruction on making safer sex erotic. The book is packed with accurate information, the latest sex research findings, and written in a hip, lighthearted tone. This sex survival guide addresses all the information today's young adults need to know. Presenting information in a fun and non-intimidating manner, the author introduces sexual techniques that not only lower the risk of getting sexually transmitted diseases but improve the quality of the readers' sex lives. The book gives young people (and all people) the permission to talk openly about sex with their partners and find hot safer sex. The focus of the book is: -How do I have "good sex? -What can I do to absolutely blow my partner away? -What can I do to make sex more erotic and exciting? -How do I maintain a healthy sex life? -How does unsafe sex affect my health? -How do I protect myself? -How can I have ALL of that - do ALL of that?

Drawing from her years of professional experience as a sexual surrogate and therapist, Keesling delves into the profound and complex powers of sexuality, offering readers the idea that sexual exchange between loving partners contains all the elements necessary for healing and happiness: touch, intimacy, communication, physical activity, and playfulness.

Thankfully, pregnant women no longer have to disguise their condition or confine themselves to the home. They're free to do other things-like enjoy an active sex life. This no-nonsense guide helps mothers-to-be maintain intimacy through all three trimesters and beyond. Using the real-life experience of one author and the professional expertise of the other, it covers a wide range of issues regarding sex and pregnancy, including the unanswered, difficult, and taboo questions and topics most people are afraid to address. It also helps partners develop new ways of communicating that help pregnant women relish life's deepest expression of sexual union. With warmth and encouragement, it prepares women for the sexual challenges and joys of pregnancy and motherhood, giving them confidence and the tools they need to enjoy it all with verve, humor, grace, and joy.

INSTANT ORGASM teaches the reader to expand their orgasmic potential by totally focusing on their pleasure areas in order to become instantly orgasmic. The first part of the book describes this instantly orgasmic possibility and gives a person the knowledge and background to fully understand this concept. In order to experience anything it has to become part of our awareness and the authors explain why this "natural ability" has not been allowed to flourish and how to let it bloom. They then present the specific techniques on how to practice becoming instantly orgasmic in a "Ground Hog" approach; that is to repeatedly start over and over again each time with some added knowledge from a previous description until we feel that a person can completely integrate the idea into actual sensation and feelings. Our other books on Extended Massive Orgasm were written in a style that took the reader on a complete orgasmic experience from the starting to going up to the arousal through peaking and then coming down. This book is about starting and stopping, starting and stopping in order to bring the reader to the point of here and now so that they may become a fully sensual being. This book also presents many different ways and reasons that people resist pleasure and how to handle those resistances. The book's final technical chapter is the art of pleasurable peaking and we describe in more detail than ever the actual timing and purposes of this vitally important method with the added emphasis that each peak starts with a first stroke mentality. The book includes many exercises and illustrations and is written in a clear concise manner.

Using an inclusive, empowering approach, this book explains how every woman - heterosexual, lesbian, bisexual or solo - can add relish to sexual encounters and increase her pleasure through use of tantric methods. In a warm, knowledgeable tone, Christa Schulte explains all the basics of tantric sex, including how to become more body-aware, how to cultivate pleasure using all five senses and how to practice "Tara-tantra," a woman-centered tantric method of her own creation. Exercises form the heart of the book and cover numerous practical strategies for helping women enhance their sensitivity, remove barriers to fulfilling experiences, and explore the spiritual dimension of their sexuality. Not only does Tantric Sex for Women show its readers how to expand and enhance sexual gratification, it promotes an attitude of remaining open to the many ecstasies of everyday life. This book contains crucial information for women of every sexual orientation interested in fulfilling their sexual and sensual potential.

A unique program of S.E.X. — Synchronized Energy eXchange — exercises that combine Tantra sexuality from India with Tai Chi movements from China. Thousands have used these simple exercises to build a connection with their mate that recalls — or surpasses — first love. Tantric Sex for Busy Couples provides readers with a dynamically new and pracitcal approach to creating intimacy on all levels — sexual, emotional and spiritual. Blending the ancient teachings of Tantra from India, and the peaceful exercise program of T'ai Chi from China, couples discover how to create magic in their relationship. Woven throughout the easy instructions are the personal experiences of the author and her husband. Although the emphasis is on intimacy rather than orgasm, the sexual practices are designed to provide plenty of both. The basic exercises presented in the book include "Solo Stillness," "Connected Pose" and the "Tantra TaiChi Trilogy." Solo Stillness highlights the idea that when we each embrace our inner self, we are more able to be truly present in a relationship. Connected Pose invites the couple to simply be with each other, face-to-face, heart-to-heart, eyes open. This establishes the foundation for intimate connection. The Tantra TaiChi Trilogy focuses on three primary centers in the body — both metaphorically and physically-the Sex Center (below the waist), the Heart Center (above the waist) and the more elusive "Bindi" or spiritual center represented by the third eye and upper "chakras." Each of these centers interacts with and influences the others. Sexual energy is moved throughout the body, rather than being concentrated in the genitals. The foundational exercises of Tantra TaiChi are preparation for the sexual practices described in the book. These include yin and yang ceremonies of sexual massage for the woman and the man, as well as "Peaceful Passion" -a sexual union that requires neither a high sex drive nor a Viagra-inspired erection. Throughout all of the practices, readers are encouraged to maintain a sacred, respectful, loving and ceremonial attitude toward their partners. This attitude alone can transform a relationship into a love affair.

"Sensual Sex" is based on the idea that by becoming more attuned to our five senses we can develop an increasingly erotic relationship with our body and our partner's body. Sex therapist Beverly Engel takes readers through each of the five senses and gives exercises to help lovers increase their pleasure and intimacy by learning to luxuriate in their senses. 10 b&w photos. National radio drive-time tour.

In this warm and insightful book (formerly titled Sexual Healing), Barbara Keesling describes the many benefits of a healthy sex life, teaches readers how to recognize a healing partner, and demonstrates how to introduce sexual healing into a relationship at any stage. Packed with intimate exercises that can be practiced with a partner or alone, the book eases performance pressure and encourages readers to explore how touch and arousal can improve all areas of life.