Men, Romance & Reality

A Blueprint to Men, Romance and Reality. Straightforward Relationship Counseling and Advice If you and your husband are a great team, and only the romance and affection is missing from your relationship, then read on, for there is light at the end of the tunnel. How to Teach Your Husband to Love You Is The Book For You Written to Give Readers an Insight on How To Change Male Attitudes to Romance Understand that with men, the emotional curtailing starts young and it's a difficult cycle to break. Your husband's behaviour and emotional shortcomings have been built up over decades, to the point where he is convinced that his emotionally restricted state is far closer to 'normal', than your (seemingly) over-emotional way of being. Why All That Talking About Feelings & What You Need From Him Emotionally Isn't Working Every time you mention your emotional needs and have 'that talk', he swears blind that he will change. And then? NOTHING. Back to the same old routine of being ignored until he wants something... You need to be explicit. Not by telling him over, and over, and over again (as you know from experience that doesn't work), but by showing him. Men, Love, Affection and Romance If you implement the changes in this book consistently, you will see a change in your relationship. Why? Because you will have effectively taught him what love means to you and, most importantly, how to love you the way you want him to. Key Sections of the Book: • How To Subtly Teach Him To Be More Affectionate • Why Your Hot & Sexy Is Getting Its Ass Kicked By Your Clingy & Needy • How To Make Him WANT To Spend Time With You

Sometimes Your Knight In Shining Armour Acts Like An Idiot In Tin Foil Perhaps you can't quite put your finger on it, but something is definitely not quite right. The generous and attentive love-interest you had a short while ago, seems to have faded. Replaced by someone whose feelings towards you seem ambivalent at best. Reasons Why Men Pull Away Is The Book For You I Will Make You Fall For Me Then Pull The Emotional Rug From Under You Just When You Get Your Hopes Up If you have found that a love-interest has pulled-away from you, you need to determine the cause to the best of your ability. This will enable you to see if the reason for his distance can be tackled (if you are still interested in pursuing the relationship), or if it's time to move on. Why You Could be Reading Him All Wrong His pulling-away, may actually be literally nothing to do with you. Men are notoriously single-minded in whatever they are doing. This is a generalisation, but it's a common enough trait amongst the majority of men for us to take it into consideration. Nobody Wants To Be With The 'Problem Lady' Mental associations are critical in controlling and influencing a persons behaviour. If he always sees you unhappy about one issue or another, what do you think he will associate you with? If this is often the case, then he will eventually come to the conclusion that either you have a lot of problems, or you complain a lot. Key Sections of the Book The Rare Case When You Can Safely Pursue A Man Who Has Pulled Away Reasons Why Your Man Pulling-Away Is A Good Thing Anecdotes From Men & Women Who Have Carried Out & Experienced The Pull-Away

Self-help For The Emotionally Challenged Man & His Pregnant Wife If you are the much put-out pregnant wife reading this book, how do you get this through to the less than emotional aware male (i.e. your husband)? He who knows that 'empathy' is a word he's definitely heard of, but the concept seems to elude him How NOT To Treat Your Pregnant Wife is The Book For You Written to Help Men Not Mess-up One Of The Most Important Periods Of Their Family Life She has aches, pains and hormones to deal with. You have her to deal with. You need to be on your best 'patience of a Sufi' game throughout. On the flip side, you can expect her to have zero-to-no-patience with any of your mistakes. Good luck with that. Why New Fathers Need to Toughen Up & Learn To Deal With The Hormones Transforming Their Wives Why do pregnant women yell at you? Because they can. Because their bodies are going through hell, they've likely spent more time than they'd ever want vomiting unexpectedly, because every movement eventually can become painful, because a baby's foot is in her ribcage and she can't get it out, because she is sleep deprived when heart burn sets in for a few months, because she feels fat and unattractive. So just sympathise and be there for her. Don't Add To The Drama For example, don't surprise her with unexpected guests, whose company is an acquired taste (i.e. your friends). Your mother (or anyone else that raises your wife's blood pressure) coming over for a visit? Have a quiet word with them before hand and advise them to be gentle with your wife. Key Sections of the Book Anecdotes From Couples In The Same Boat Your Wife's Pregnant, Not You. It's Not A Competition Words You Should Never (EVER) Say To Your Pregnant Wife. EVER.