Stop Romanticizing the Red Flags

You called it love, but it felt like survival.You kept making excuses.You silenced your gut.You clung to chaos, hoping it would turn into calm.But deep down, you knew: this wasn't love. It was emotional warfare wrapped in sweet words and temporary highs.Stop Romanticizing the Red Flags is the brutally honest, deeply healing book you didn't know you needed.Written for the overthinkers, over-givers, and over-stayers - this book explores the emotional drama we confuse for intimacy, the ego traps we fall into, and why we keep calling pain "passion."Inside, you'll find:20 raw, relatable chapters that hit hardStories that will make you cry, laugh, reflect - and finally see clearlyPowerful insights into emotional addiction, trauma bonds, ego games, and self-sabotageJournal prompts and healing takeaways for every chapterThis isn't just a book.It's a reality check, a therapy session, and a warm hug all in one.If you're done accepting breadcrumbs, doubting your worth, or mistaking toxicity for love - it's time to break the cycle.Because love should never feel like walking on eggshells. Shakir Amin writes for the overthinkers, the burned-out, and the quietly exhausted. As a modern-day observer of chaos and calm, he blends practical philosophy, mental clarity tools, and real-life grit to help readers reset their minds-without fluff, guilt trips, or guru-speak.When he's not writing books like The 10-Day Mental Reset, he's building digital tools, coaching creatives, or reflecting on life's madness through Stoic eyes. Shakir believes clarity isn't a luxury-it's a survival skill.He also runs The Modern Soul, a platform and YouTube channel dedicated to helping people navigate modern life with more sanity, less doomscrolling, and a bit more meaning.