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He coached thousands of boys to be better men. He almost missed his own son doing it.
Marc Favaro has spent over four decades inside youth baseball - as a player, a certified umpire, a coach, a parent in the bleachers, and the founder of one of Colorado's largest competitive youth baseball organizations. He has stood in front of thousands of parents in bleachers and told them the same thing: be present, play the long game, remember what matters.
And then his son looked him in the eye and said eight words that changed everything.
"You never coached me like you coached them."
He was right.
The Long Game is not a baseball book. It is a book about what happens when a father mistakes being busy for being present - and what it costs when he finally understands the difference. Written from inside that failure, with the honesty that only comes from a man who built something remarkable for the world while quietly missing something irreplaceable at home, this book is for every parent who has ever sat in the stands and wondered whether they were getting this right.
Part memoir, part coaching guide, The Long Game walks through the lessons Marc learned across four decades of dugouts, car rides, and championship fields - including the ones he learned too late. Readers will discover:
• What the car ride home is actually for - and the one sentence that changes everything about it
• Why the stands reveal more about a parent than the field ever reveals about a player
• How to talk to a child who is being treated unjustly by a coach - and when practical advice has to give way to something larger
• What the scoreboard is costing you while you watch it
• How to play the long game: the relationship that outlasts every season, every at-bat, and every box score
Whether your child plays baseball, soccer, basketball, or cheers on a competitive squad - the dynamic between a parent's expectations and a child's experience is the same. The sport is just the stage. The story is yours.
The Long Game is a book about fatherhood, failure, and the particular grace of a son who forgave more than he was owed.
Marc Favaro has spent over four decades inside youth baseball - as a player, a certified umpire, a coach, a parent in the bleachers, and the founder of one of Colorado's largest competitive youth baseball organizations. He has stood in front of thousands of parents in bleachers and told them the same thing: be present, play the long game, remember what matters.
And then his son looked him in the eye and said eight words that changed everything.
"You never coached me like you coached them."
He was right.
The Long Game is not a baseball book. It is a book about what happens when a father mistakes being busy for being present - and what it costs when he finally understands the difference. Written from inside that failure, with the honesty that only comes from a man who built something remarkable for the world while quietly missing something irreplaceable at home, this book is for every parent who has ever sat in the stands and wondered whether they were getting this right.
Part memoir, part coaching guide, The Long Game walks through the lessons Marc learned across four decades of dugouts, car rides, and championship fields - including the ones he learned too late. Readers will discover:
• What the car ride home is actually for - and the one sentence that changes everything about it
• Why the stands reveal more about a parent than the field ever reveals about a player
• How to talk to a child who is being treated unjustly by a coach - and when practical advice has to give way to something larger
• What the scoreboard is costing you while you watch it
• How to play the long game: the relationship that outlasts every season, every at-bat, and every box score
Whether your child plays baseball, soccer, basketball, or cheers on a competitive squad - the dynamic between a parent's expectations and a child's experience is the same. The sport is just the stage. The story is yours.
The Long Game is a book about fatherhood, failure, and the particular grace of a son who forgave more than he was owed.