Before the event: the rehearsal - every possible scenario, every possible wrong thing to say. During: the monitoring - performing and watching yourself perform at the same time. After: the post-mortem - the detailed inventory of everything you said wrong.
This is social anxiety. Not shyness - a disorder of threat detection applied to social situations. And one of the most treatable anxiety presentations available.
Social Anxiety is the complete, evidence-based guide to understanding the fear, breaking the avoidance cycle, and finally entering the social world fully.
Inside you will discover:
• The maintenance cycle: why avoidance keeps social anxiety alive