When not putting, a short checklist before the groom standing at the alter, eg. Asking him to complete the questionaire with question on like: Are you an ax murderer? or Are you a diagnosed Narcissist? No can do, you can only hope, that you are not making a mistake. Take my life, I lay before you and you can learn from my mistakes. Let me run you through years of my life with the Narcissistic one. Learn to recognize these traits and before your guy or girl has hooked you and you are about to give over all you have achieved into his or her hands, get out, rather than throw away costly years of a life that you can never demand back. Learn how romantic a person the Narcissistic one, wether male or female, can be. Learn how your life can change within weeks with someone that does not have empathy and cannot understand that you can have empathy. When you have read this book and you don't have a niggly feeling in your gut, great and Goodluck I have done my job properly to warn you, how easilly, we can trust others.Take a short trip through Twenty years with me, experience with me how amazing one feels, when your partner takes over all the things that get the hell out of you. Learn with me the signs of abuse and the fear of standing behind the door and he is breaking into your home. You know when he is in this mode, if he had any sympathy or even caring, he would be back tracking this deed, because after reading this book he will be gone from your heart. Fear with me through being drugged and violated by the man that once left you so in love with him, that one did not care whether the sun shone or not. Wake with me when one's body is frozen from the drugs the partner threw into your food or drink. Run with me to the furthest points, where fear is your life. Break with me when you cannot find a space to run anymore. Listen in the lonely night with me as he cuts the rubber from between the door and one knows, he has got you. Look with me into the mirror after running for Seventeen years and cry with me when the memory of the younger woman or man you were, burns fresh in one's mind and time has passed you by.!
