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Making Nice With Naughty

An Intimacy Guide for the Rule-Following, Organized, Perfectionist, Practical, and Color-Within-The-

Thomas L. Murray
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Pages
236
Year
2022
Language
English
Publisher
Clinical Training & Consultation, PLLC

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Overcontrolled Temperament?

Discover How Too Much Self-Control Can Ruin Your Sex Life and Find Powerful Solutions.

Are you experiencing low sexual desire, emotional distance from your partner, sexual performance anxiety, sexual perfectionism, anorgasmia, sexual dysfunction, or sexual pain disorders? Then you owe it to yourself to read “Making Nice with Naughty. An Intimacy Guide for the Rule-Following, Organized, Perfectionist, Practical, and Color-Within-The-Line Types.”

You've been told how being naughty would get you into trouble and that you should live by the rules to be successful. Consequently, you developed a lot of self-control. The virtues of self-control, while highly rewarding in many areas of your life, can wreak havoc on others, particularly those where vulnerability is essential: intimate relationships and sex life.

Millions of folks, just like you, struggle with relaxing and being playful during sex. For them, naughty has gotten a bad rap and represents so much of what you've come to avoid: mystery, unpredictability, the unfamiliar, and uncertainty.

Yet, many of these features are essential to acquiring a meaningful and fulfilling sex life. It's time to make nice with naughty!

Utilizing several innovative and effective psychotherapies, including Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dr. Thomas L. Murray Jr takes you on an eye-opening journey to help you improve your relationships and experience a more fulfilling sex life.

Here's why you'll love this guide:

• Discover how (too much) self-control underlies many sexual and relationship problems.
• Reconnect with your partner using the power of vulnerability.
• Experience Freedom from Old Patterns of Thinking.
• Change your relationship with anxiety and embrace uncertainty.
• Learn To Reduce Negative Self-Talk.
• Enjoy Greater Psychological Flexibility.
• Apply New and Powerful Mindfulness Techniques.
• Discover A Better Sex Life That's Pleasure-Based Rather Than Performance-Based.

And more!

Don't be left behind and get practical professional advice to reduce the negative impact of having too much self-control. Making Nice with Naughty is the perfect book for healing the inner suffering of over-controlled people who tend to be rule-oriented and psychologically rigid in ways that interfere with their ability to have rewarding and satisfying sex.
Start a transformational journey today!

Are you ready?

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