This manuscript was written to serve as a guide for finding, selecting, and keeping the "right" partner/mate. It is for those who desire and demand a highly functional "union"—with the aim of achieving a very specific set of goals and aspirations on various levels within a partnership. In other words, a partnership in a union of marriage ought to have an enduring and meaningful purpose, rather than a bucket of undefined dreams and desires.
My intention is to deliver a framework to find, select, and keep the right mate for anyone contemplating marriage or a significant relationship, and for those already involved in one. If you are not yet involved in a marriage, you will be much better served and armed with the content of this writing, thus far ahead of the game. I would like to focus my attention on those of you who have highly demanding careers, such as doctors, lawyers, dreamers, artisans, entrepreneurs, inventors, politicians, and high-level executives, etc. If you fall into anyone of the aforementioned categories, it is critical that you have made the right selection or select the right mate—if you intend to pursue your profession and take it to the top of its game. If you are someone that just wants to immensely improve your chances of getting what you bargained for by way of partnering in marriage, this book is for you.
You will learn how to create a framework for a partnership that serves as a rudder for your ship, so to speak, that will guide you from port to port—while pursuing the intended goals of the partnership. So if you want to preserve the precious cargo of memories, children, home, and dreams not yet realized, you better have a rudder on your ship (a framework plan) that will guide you directly to each port of call. Without a rudder, you risk aimlessly being caught at sea in turbulent times where your cargo can easily be dumped overboard. Even if you do find yourself out at sea in a violent storm (caught in the turmoil of life), your chances of making it to port are very high, if you have a rudder, because with a rudder (a framework plan), you can steer your ship out of harm's way and your framework plan will undoubtedly contain a series of emergency operations plans for such eventualities.
