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Learn to understand why people refuse to get help for their mental health and substance use issues-and how to encourage them to change their mind.
Why is it so hard to ask for help, especially when we need it the most? There are a variety of reasons why individuals resist treatment, harming themselves and their loved ones in the process. In Choosing Help, psychologist Tracy Stecker, PhD, provides an in-depth exploration of these barriers to betterment, and the mindsets that produce them, and most importantly, how to break them down.
While past strategies have focused on the family or community to help engage the individual toward treatment, Choosing Help draws on decades of research data to create an evidence-based intervention system for changing an individual's thought process to one which can embrace the choice to ask for help.
With concise analysis and illuminating case studies, each chapter highlights a particular reason to resist treatment, like:
• "Treatment won't work."
• "I'm not ready."
• "I don't need help."
• "I can handle it on my own."
• "I don't want 'that' type of treatment."
• "It's too hard to open up."
Whether you're wrestling with your own resistance or struggling to support someone who is, this is a vital resource for understanding why help is hard to choose-and how to make it easier. "Grounded in cutting-edge science and brought to life through deeply human stories, this book offers practical tools for navigating the most common-and often most difficult-reasons people avoid getting help."
-Sudie Back, PhD, Director of Drug Abuse Research Training, Medical University of South Carolina
"A readable and highly useful book on seeking mental health help. A highly recommended read from a world's authority on the topic."
-Thomas Joiner, PhD, Director, FSU Psychology Clinic
"Friends, parents, teachers, counselors, doctors, and other health providers, especially those who are not familiar with cognitive behavior therapy, will find this book educational and useful."
-Bob Drake, MD, PhD, Professor of Clinical Psychiatry, Columbia University
"...provides practical techniques and easy to understand examples that not only build confidence to initiate that conversation, but to help get your loved one, co-worker, or patient into the treatment they need."
-Lisham Ashrafioun, PhD, Associate Professor of Psychiatry, University of Rochester Medical Center
"As a clinician and researcher, I see the same barrier over and over: people want help, but anxiety, stigma, and logistics win. This book targets that barrier directly with practical, stepwise strategies and clear measurement."
-Nik Allan, PhD, Assistant Professor, Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Health, The Ohio State University
"...an invaluable tool for families, healthcare professionals and students learning to build trust and foster meaningful conversations."
-Teresa Kelechi, PhD, Dean of Research in the College of Nursing, Medical University of South Carolina
"...provides concrete, real-life strategies and small steps, to help your loved one say yes to life-changing mental health treatment."
-Bobbi Conner, producer and host of the Health Focus radio series & podcast
"Dr. Tracy Stecker breathes compassion into the challenging landscape of supporting loved ones who are struggling with their mental health."
-Jennifer M. Gómez, PhD, Associate Professor of Social Work at Boston University Tracy Stecker, PhD, is a psychologist at the Medical University of South Carolina and at the Center of Excellence for Suicide Prevention in the Department of Veterans Affairs. Dr. Stecker's work focuses on help-seeking behavior among individuals with mental health and substance use concerns. Her work has been nationally recognized, including by the Presidential Task Force PREVENTS in 2020. She has been funded fro
Why is it so hard to ask for help, especially when we need it the most? There are a variety of reasons why individuals resist treatment, harming themselves and their loved ones in the process. In Choosing Help, psychologist Tracy Stecker, PhD, provides an in-depth exploration of these barriers to betterment, and the mindsets that produce them, and most importantly, how to break them down.
While past strategies have focused on the family or community to help engage the individual toward treatment, Choosing Help draws on decades of research data to create an evidence-based intervention system for changing an individual's thought process to one which can embrace the choice to ask for help.
With concise analysis and illuminating case studies, each chapter highlights a particular reason to resist treatment, like:
• "Treatment won't work."
• "I'm not ready."
• "I don't need help."
• "I can handle it on my own."
• "I don't want 'that' type of treatment."
• "It's too hard to open up."
Whether you're wrestling with your own resistance or struggling to support someone who is, this is a vital resource for understanding why help is hard to choose-and how to make it easier. "Grounded in cutting-edge science and brought to life through deeply human stories, this book offers practical tools for navigating the most common-and often most difficult-reasons people avoid getting help."
-Sudie Back, PhD, Director of Drug Abuse Research Training, Medical University of South Carolina
"A readable and highly useful book on seeking mental health help. A highly recommended read from a world's authority on the topic."
-Thomas Joiner, PhD, Director, FSU Psychology Clinic
"Friends, parents, teachers, counselors, doctors, and other health providers, especially those who are not familiar with cognitive behavior therapy, will find this book educational and useful."
-Bob Drake, MD, PhD, Professor of Clinical Psychiatry, Columbia University
"...provides practical techniques and easy to understand examples that not only build confidence to initiate that conversation, but to help get your loved one, co-worker, or patient into the treatment they need."
-Lisham Ashrafioun, PhD, Associate Professor of Psychiatry, University of Rochester Medical Center
"As a clinician and researcher, I see the same barrier over and over: people want help, but anxiety, stigma, and logistics win. This book targets that barrier directly with practical, stepwise strategies and clear measurement."
-Nik Allan, PhD, Assistant Professor, Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Health, The Ohio State University
"...an invaluable tool for families, healthcare professionals and students learning to build trust and foster meaningful conversations."
-Teresa Kelechi, PhD, Dean of Research in the College of Nursing, Medical University of South Carolina
"...provides concrete, real-life strategies and small steps, to help your loved one say yes to life-changing mental health treatment."
-Bobbi Conner, producer and host of the Health Focus radio series & podcast
"Dr. Tracy Stecker breathes compassion into the challenging landscape of supporting loved ones who are struggling with their mental health."
-Jennifer M. Gómez, PhD, Associate Professor of Social Work at Boston University Tracy Stecker, PhD, is a psychologist at the Medical University of South Carolina and at the Center of Excellence for Suicide Prevention in the Department of Veterans Affairs. Dr. Stecker's work focuses on help-seeking behavior among individuals with mental health and substance use concerns. Her work has been nationally recognized, including by the Presidential Task Force PREVENTS in 2020. She has been funded fro