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The Hidden Gifts of the Introverted Child

Helping Your Child Thrive in an Extroverted World

Marti Olsen Laney, Psy.D.
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Pages
256
Year
2005
Language
English

About

Introverted children are often misunderstood, even by their parents, who worry about them. Engaged by their interior world, they're often regarded as aloof. Easily overwhelmed by too much stimulation, they can be seen as unmotivated. Content with just one or two close friends, they may be perceived as unpopular. Parents fret that they are unhappy and maladjusted. But the truth is quite different: Introverted children are creative problem solvers. Introverted children love to learn. Introverted children have a high EQ (emotional IQ) and are in touch with their feelings. They take time to stop and smell the roses, and they enjoy their own company. They are dependable, persistent, flexible, and lack vanity.

How can parents help their introverted children discover and cultivate these wonderful gifts? Help is here. Written by Dr. Marti Olsen Laney, author of “The Introvert Advantage” with 74,000 copies in print, “The Hidden Gifts of the Introverted Child” fully explains introversion as a hardwired temperament, not a disability, and tells just what parents need to do to help their child become the person he or she is meant to be and succeed in an extroverted world. Beginning with a 30-question quiz that places a child on the introvert/extrovert continuum, “The Hidden Gifts” shows parents how to foster a climate that allows introverted kids to discover their inner strengths; schedule ways for a very young innie to recharge those batteries and teach an older child to do it for him- or herself; create a harmonious household with siblings, and parents, of different temperaments; help innies find success at school, sports, parties, and other group activities.

Chapter One: Was an Introverted Child Dropped Down Your Chimney-What Introversion is, and What it Isn't

Chapter Two: Innies and Outies are Hardwired-Brain Physiology Creates Introverted and Extroverted Temperaments

Chapter Three: Introverts' Advantages in an Extroverted World-Learn to Highlight Your Child's Hidden Gifts

Chapter Four: Building Emotional Resilience-Establishing Strong Bonds with Your Child Will Provide Him a Secure Foundation

Chapter Five: The Care and Feeding of Innies -Predictable Routines Energize Innies So They Can Flourish

Chapter Six: Play, Conversation, and the Art of Relaxation-Encourage Daily Chats, Creative Play, Decision-Making Steps, and Stress-Busting Skills

Chapter Seven: The Family Temperament Tango-Increase Family Harmony by Validating and Appreciating Each Member's Footwork

Chapter Eight: Improving Sibling Relationships-Encourage Understanding, Establish Boundaries, and Dampen Rivalry

Chapter Nine: Extending the Family Tree-Cultivate Close Relationships with Gran

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